Which one is Louder, action or words?

I am referring the subject over a personal matter. It kept me thinking and I just couldn't ask the person the questions that running in my head. Of course I tried to avoid misunderstanding and it could jeopardize my short or long future.

I need suggestion...

If someone is care about you, show that he/she always remember you but telling you that he/she actually confuse. What should you say? What should you react?

As for me, I kept silence but my brain is quite at work. It kept me thinking about it... and the question is always.. WHY?

I am saying this because it hurts... to me... maybe not you.

xoxo
chibi