Be mentally strong
Friday, January 17, 2014
My several blogs did mention about Emotional Intelligence (EI) and today I came across an article shared by my best friend Syer, through Facebook. It is very interesting that everyone should look into for life improvement.
The article listed 13 things mentally strong people would avoid. Let us check one by one:
Avoid 1 : Feeling sorry for themselves.
• anything bad happen, let it pass. What done is done.
• my own scripts will be, "Alright nevermind, let's move on."
Avoid 2 : Give away their power.
• means, don't let anyone to put you down.
• you're as good as everyone, as potential as everyone.
Avoid 3 : Shy away from change.
• grab the opportunities.
• confidence in own decision because you need anyone's approval to be better you.
Avoid 4 : Waste energy for things can't control.
• basically no whining. When you know it impossibly be change. Just be it.
Avoid 5 : Worry about pleasing others.
• of course. If people don't like you, they don't like you.
• most people being judgemental. Don't let you be one too.
Avoid 6 : Fear taking calculated risk.
• once a decision had been considered the plus, minus, divide and multiply. Do what you think is right.
Avoid 7 : Dwell on the past.
• easy. What done is done.
Avoid 8 : Make the same mistake over and over.
• Ever heard quote "Mistake is to learn, not to repeat"
Avoid 9 : Resent other people's success.
• jealousy sometimes kill. It such a negative impact for the behavioural and attitude.
• just be happy for others. Genuinely.
Avoid 10 : Give up after failure.
• successful road not easy. One have to through failure in order to success.
• it's part of the lessons.
Avoid 11 : Fear alone time.
• alone time is great. That's the moment you meditate and plan for self improvement.
• also shown that how one can live independently.
Avoid 12 : Feels like the world owes him anything.
• just believe and go for your dream.
• don't expect too high that everything should be rewarded. One day, you will and you didn't see it coming.
Avoid 13 : Expect immediate results.
• be patient. It's one of the key.
Okay I think that is all. You can refer link below for the proper explanation. What you read above based on my understanding and for my own remarks.
read the article
Enjoy reading.
Hugs & Kisses
Chibi
The article listed 13 things mentally strong people would avoid. Let us check one by one:
Avoid 1 : Feeling sorry for themselves.
• anything bad happen, let it pass. What done is done.
• my own scripts will be, "Alright nevermind, let's move on."
Avoid 2 : Give away their power.
• means, don't let anyone to put you down.
• you're as good as everyone, as potential as everyone.
Avoid 3 : Shy away from change.
• grab the opportunities.
• confidence in own decision because you need anyone's approval to be better you.
Avoid 4 : Waste energy for things can't control.
• basically no whining. When you know it impossibly be change. Just be it.
Avoid 5 : Worry about pleasing others.
• of course. If people don't like you, they don't like you.
• most people being judgemental. Don't let you be one too.
Avoid 6 : Fear taking calculated risk.
• once a decision had been considered the plus, minus, divide and multiply. Do what you think is right.
Avoid 7 : Dwell on the past.
• easy. What done is done.
Avoid 8 : Make the same mistake over and over.
• Ever heard quote "Mistake is to learn, not to repeat"
Avoid 9 : Resent other people's success.
• jealousy sometimes kill. It such a negative impact for the behavioural and attitude.
• just be happy for others. Genuinely.
Avoid 10 : Give up after failure.
• successful road not easy. One have to through failure in order to success.
• it's part of the lessons.
Avoid 11 : Fear alone time.
• alone time is great. That's the moment you meditate and plan for self improvement.
• also shown that how one can live independently.
Avoid 12 : Feels like the world owes him anything.
• just believe and go for your dream.
• don't expect too high that everything should be rewarded. One day, you will and you didn't see it coming.
Avoid 13 : Expect immediate results.
• be patient. It's one of the key.
Okay I think that is all. You can refer link below for the proper explanation. What you read above based on my understanding and for my own remarks.
read the article
Enjoy reading.
Hugs & Kisses
Chibi
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Skin problem. Sad.
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
I wish my skin problem will be solved. It's been a year since my skin problem arisen and until now it was not fully cured.
I have tried many alternatives and even visit beautician but after I left it my skin turned worst again.
Now I have micro bumps on my face. .. all over my face that I lost my confidence. Very bad.
I need skin solution that makes my skin smooth again. Help!
Xoxo
Chibi
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You need someone to talk to
Friday, January 3, 2014
Pathetic that's me.
It seems that I need someone to talk to even I have tons of motivational book which makes me so into my goal this year.
New year just started, feeling fresh to start writing the business proposal, write up daily plan, jotting down in-hand stock, marketing plan etc etc.
I handed my resignation yesterday but was given my off days to rethink about it. The reflects definitely different from every angle. Management will think it is not a good idea, I might not survive if I jump off the cliff at this moment. In the other hand I think I can built up my wing all the way down to save myself.
Well, since I clearly see the credit and debit on both sides. So, I think I might give myself another few months and also work out my plan. No one says it is easy, no one can say it is impossible too.
So, I need to talk to someone. Who can reflect. Not the management, not myself which I only can write in the blog and talking alone.
Xoxo
Chibi
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Am I getting wiser?
Friday, December 13, 2013
So,am I getting wiser if I grew moustache? Seriously gambar di atas dan soalan pasal moustache tak ada kaitan. Pembaca-pembaca sekalian. Ni sebab takde gambar lain nak letak.
(Berbalik pada isi blog yang sebenar)
As years goes by, how much I realised that I am getting older but there are times it crossed my mind if I am getting wiser? At least it has to better than yesterday.
Everyday is a learning process... I remembered have cried and laughed along the way. I am greatful that today I will be able to look at the bright side on every hurts and pains. So, by the end of the day, I smiled.
Emotional intelligence. Something I believe not to be mastered in the classroom or in the training room. It will take time and effort. Even sometimes we'll be broken too. Because we are human and nobody's perfect; and it's okay. Because that's how we learn and we mostlywe called I experience rather than lessons.
I would like to thank you for everyone who made me smile and will make me smile.
"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery and today is a gift. That's why we called it present." -Joan River
I obviously simply type.
Xoxo
Chibi
Cinderella and the shoes...
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Girls and shoes are significant. I love shoes so much and I believe most girls do!
For the love and Cinderella who slips her glass shoe. I painted this and believe that dream will come true. ♥♥♥
Beautiful Christian Louboutin shoe. Fall in love instantly. I'm glad I managed to finish painting it.
Much love
Chibi
Nisha's wedding!
Sunday, September 8, 2013
I would like to thank you Nisha & husband for inviting me to your beautiful wedding.
Wishing both of you will be together forever till jannah. Amin...
Love
Chibi
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